Category Archives: compassion

Learning to Say No

Posted on February 4, 2026 by terryshen

“Just say no” sounds easy. Yet that hasn’t been the case for me. As such, after a lifetime of pleasing others, I realized I’ve overlooked the most important person of all: myself. I’ve spent years on prioritizing others’ needs ahead … Continue reading →

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Week in Review – 1 Feb 2026

Posted on February 1, 2026 by terryshen

We have officially cleared the first month of 2026. The “Happy New Year” wishes of January 1st feel a distant, yet naive memory. If the start of the year has proven anything, it’s that the world does not care about … Continue reading →

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Finding Comfort

Posted on January 21, 2026 by terryshen

Finding comfort may seem trivial when survival is at stake. Yet, these small consolations are often what sustain our will to keep trying. Whether it’s a sweet treat, a quiet reprieve, or a bit of pampering, we seek these rewards … Continue reading →

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Responsible

Posted on December 30, 2025 by terryshen

The word “responsible” is the marriage of two concepts: response and able. In our society, reaching the age of 18 is the legal rite of passage to adulthood. By then, individuals are considered responsible for themselves.The assumption is by this … Continue reading →

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Week in Review – 28 Dec 2025

Posted on December 28, 2025 by terryshen

Only a few days left in the year, and the thought brings a tinge of sadness– it has been a rough-and-tumble year filled with many “firsts” for me. This is paradoxical considering I have been retired for eleven years. Certainly, … Continue reading →

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The Magic of the Holidays

Posted on December 24, 2025 by terryshen

By now, most of us are feeling the magic of the holidays. But as we celebrate Christmas Eve, it is important to remember those for whom today is still a work day. The mail is still being delivered, and our … Continue reading →

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Week in Review – 14 Dec 2025

Posted on December 14, 2025 by terryshen

Today is the 52nd Honolulu Marathon. The rainy start did not deter the over 40 thousand runners. And with a firework kickoff at 5 am, they were off and running. While I was not running, I was there at the … Continue reading →

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A Feel Good Christmas?

Posted on December 9, 2025 by terryshen

The US is facing stiff headwinds. From economical anxieties, stark political division, to pressing climate concerns, the list is extensive. Yet, in just over two weeks Christmas will arrive– a time traditionally associated with peace, joy, and cheer. Certainly, our … Continue reading →

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A Thanksgiving Tragedy

Posted on November 28, 2025 by terryshen

Thanksgiving is a time for the family. Imagine you going home to surprise your family for Thanksgiving but ended up getting deported. That is exactly what happened to Any Lucia Lopez Belloza, who was attending college in Boston, flying home … Continue reading →

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Of Course, I’m Right!

Posted on November 25, 2025 by terryshen

When confronted with ambiguity, human nature is to default to our personal subjective reality. We instinctively trust our own intuition and gut feel. In reality, however, this confidence is often misplaced as our senses tend to gravitate towards our established … Continue reading →

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